Quick to Hear, Slow to Speak: The Path to God’s Righteousness
Quick to listen. (James 1:19-20, NKJV, NIV, CEV)
It is importance to fully listen so we can understand someone before we speak. (Proverbs 18:13) When we listen intentionally, we gain wisdom and grow in understanding, which helps strengthen our relationships and decisions. (Proverbs 19:20; James 1:5, CEV)
Slow to speak. (Proverbs 18:13, CEV, MSG)
We have to be slow to speak if we are going to get the “how” and “why” behind the words spoken. When we rush to speak, we often hurt the other person and make the situation worse. There are times when we are to be quick to speak words that will help, bring truth, wisdom, and encouragement.
Slow to anger. (James 1:20, NIV)
Wrong anger does not accomplish God’s purpose. Wrong anger causes us to make foolish decisions. (Ecclesiastes 7:9, NCV) Anger has a purpose when used the right way at the right time.
It’s possible to be angry without sinning, but it’s important to resolve the problem in a healthy way and quickly when possible. (Ephesians 4:26, NIV; Mark 3:5, NIV)